Human behavior is conditional and influenced by the environment. The way we interact with friends' relatives and children is conditional. We were taught to behave in an acceptable manner to the standards laid down by the society. If our behavior deviates from the set standards, then we are called antisocial or lunatics or something that perceivably fits our behavior.
The statements such as "this is what I am and so be it" or "I can't change, accept me as I am" or "I got these qualities by birth so can't help it" is a mere facade, to hide our reluctance to make a positive effort to change. When some friends treat us indifferently, we tend to behave in the similar fashion towards them. We also help people and expect help in return. This is where we make mistake, Don’t we!
Service and love should be without expectations. As children of god, we have every right to have expectations from God, who is our father, but doing service in anticipation of a return favor is not what we are taught by God. Our behavior takes a turn when people do not behave as we expect them to behave. We keep dwelling on their bad characters or thoughts. Do not ponder over negative traits in other, for then they will take root in you". This is a fact. When we think only of negative in people we respond to them in the similar manner, hence we are no better than those that we condemned. We are conditioning our mind and behavior to match those of the people who cause us displeasure and provoke our anger. In such situations, it is better to walk away rather than indulge in arguments and exchange of words.
3 comments:
Dont you think 'Service or Love with out expectations' would be impossible.After all we are not saints....:)
What was really needed was a fundamental change in our attitude toward life, the changes doesn't make u saint... We had to learn ourselves and, furthermore, we had to teach the despairing human, that it did not really matter what we expected from life, but rather what life expected from us. what say! :-)
When someone comes and gives a punch right in your face, its humanly imopssible to smile back at him and say, 'Son god will take care of you when you go to hell'
When good people fail to take action evil prevails! and we should try not to let that happen, we need not be evil, but we should definitely act against people trying to destroy peace.
There would not be any law and order in place, if these crackpots who infact are antisocial elements, are not punished.
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